How appropriate that this was on today, especially after my most recent post. I missed the first show, but am interested. I recognized my patterns long long ago, but have never conquered them.
I can't say that I am a failure at this way of thinking, because my marriage could've easily been over 6 years ago, but I stopped playing the victim and started loving my husband beyond what patterns we had fallen into. How interesting to have the realization that I have forgiven Hubby and myself according to 'their' definition. Also how interesting to realize that I could do it then, but am struggling to do it now in other avenues of my life.
So here's to loving myself beyond what patterns I have fallen into.